I always look forward to getting out with Aaron for a date. We mostly do movies. I like going out to a movie, but tonight's choice really turned me off. Transformers. It was rude, loud, violent, and sexual. Why oh why does this not turn my husband off too? I did not like it one bit. He really liked it. So frustrating. If I talk with him about it, he'll get all defensive and think I'm judging him. I just want him to realize who he is as the leader of our home and a Priesthood leader none the less. We have made promises to each other, that granted, we've both broken. How can I help him to take the lead? How can I help him to be more sensitive to things like we saw tonight? How can I help him to realize how uncomfortable this makes his wife feel without him thinking I'm judging him? I want so badly for us to both be better and do better for each other and for our family. Maybe my expectations are just too high.
